But new traditions have begun. During the holiday season, the Clarks now schedule a vacation. "Anywhere that has a beach," Raina said. "It has to have a beach." This year, they're going to a little island off of Cancun, where they'll rent a house on the water and follow their new ritual: Find a pink island flower, walk to the shoreline, say a prayer for Hanna and toss the flower in the ocean. Raina learned years ago at her grieving support group that the grief would never go away, that it would be a second job, something she would need to learn how to manage. This year she was finally able

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